Habit 4: Networking with Purpose
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Strategy: Purposeful, Value-First Networking
Networking is not collecting contacts—it is exchanging value repeatedly with the right people. Start with clarity: what problems are you solving, for whom, and what value can you deliver today? Purpose turns random meetings into compounding alliances.
Map Your Social Capital
List your top 25 relationships across mentors, peers, operators, investors, creators, and customers. Identify gaps and prioritize bridges to people who accelerate your goals and whose goals you can accelerate.
Give-First & Asymmetric Value
Offer introductions, playbooks, or data that save others time or money. Asymmetric value means small effort for you, big gain for them—this builds trust rapidly.
- Share a tested SOP or checklist
- Provide a crisp customer intro
- Offer a teardown of a landing page or deck
Introductions & Bridge Building
Be the node that connects nodes. Ask permission before intro (“double opt-in”), include a one-paragraph context, and propose a next step (15-minute call, async doc review).
Subject: Quick intro? <Name> × <Name> (double opt-in)
Context: Shared goal/opportunity
Why now: Timely catalyst
Next step: 15-minute call or async swapEvents: Before, During, After
Before
- Research attendees; pre-book 2–3 coffees
- Prepare one-page “what I’m building” brief
During
- Ask specific questions; take quick notes
- Make one useful introduction per session
After
- 24-hour follow-up with a value nugget
- Log contacts and set a 2-week check-in
Digital Networking (LinkedIn, Email, X)
Publish short insights weekly to attract your niche. Use DMs and concise emails to propose clear value. Respect attention: short, specific, and helpful wins.
- LinkedIn: one weekly post + one useful comment/day
- Email: value-forward, 4–6 sentences, one ask
- X: threads that distill a playbook or teardown
Cold Outreach Templates
Subject: 8-min teardown for <Company>'s <Goal>
Hi <Name>, I built a 1-page teardown with 3 experiments that could
<outcome> in 30 days. If useful, I can walk you through async or in 10 min.
— <Your Name>Subject: Quick intro to <Partner>?
Hi <Name>, I can intro you to <Partner> who solved <problem> with <approach>.
Double opt-in if you'd like me to connect you both.CRM, Follow-Ups, & Cadences
Use a simple CRM or spreadsheet to track contacts, notes, and next steps. Create weekly and monthly cadences so relationships don’t atrophy.
- Weekly: 5 touchpoints to support active projects
- Monthly: 5–10 check-ins with value (intro, resource)
- Quarterly: update email with wins and asks
Metrics & Relationship KPIs
Measure introductions made, replies to cold outreach, meetings that led to actions, and deals tied to network referrals. What you measure improves.
Pitfalls & Ethics
- Transactional tone: Lead with help, not asks.
- Spam: Personalize or don’t send.
- Overpromising: Protect your reputation; underpromise and overdeliver.
FAQ
How many new contacts per week?
Quality beats quantity. Aim for 3–5 meaningful touchpoints and 1–2 high-quality introductions.
What if I’m introverted?
Default to thoughtful async communication and small-group coffees. Consistency compounds.
Do I need a fancy CRM?
No. A simple spreadsheet with notes and reminders works if you review it weekly.
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